I think a good question to ask oneself…

I think a good question to ask oneself is in a current relationship (or the last one, if single), "where am/was I selfish" or "how am/was I selfish?".

One the biggest culprits in our society in terms of relationships, is selfishness. Love is 100% giving, not expectations. The trick in our culture is winning the lottery where the other person is also transitioning to selflessness at the same time you are.

Selfishness is genderless.

Kris (in a response to a thread on Facebook)